Hell, even in healthy relationships. I noticed my husbands mental health was getting rough, so I tried to bring it up. He got so defensive so fast, tried to flip it on me when he got panicky.

We talked that incident out, but people seem to generally just get defensive about sensitive things all the time, like reflexively. Unless you’ve done extensive inner work, it’s how it goes. How many avoidants walk this earth christ

I watched it post breakup, but before total prefrontal lobe development. Fucking loved it.

Are they mixing it up with the movie, The Mask? That one is Kristin Dunst no?