You’ve completely misunderstood my intent.

I would never advocate withholding sex as punishment. Resentment because of unequal work loads leading to loss of libido is different.

Men who think that they don’t have to do any chores or childcare after they’re done at work are the ones who should be putting in effort after they are getting home. Not because that’s how they earn sex, but because they are fathers and husbands.