You must be doing something right, then

The next step is to give zero fucks (can be tricky, easier if you have supportive friends)

If trashy lesbian romance counts as classic literature, then yes this is me at the moment - I have to by up for 4.30am every day :-/

You have permission to be really really gay, yes

Purely by accident, I can assure you

Oh lordy … I’m in torment, my other half is such a bottom and loves to be bossed around in everyday life. But she isn’t kinky at all. Like zero :-/

Meh, I got a new work laptop in December. It’s “running” Windows 11 and has the copilot key - TBH having one useless key is the least of my worries.

“Ironically, I think we’re starting to hit the point of recreating the substance of the meme.”

Ok, but no tongues.

Yes, I think we both understand each other’s point of view now. Perhaps I’m more wary of self a identification because I’ve seen other groups (sports and spiritual) accept self-description and then get turned inside out through it :-/

The worst possible state for a sock to be in? Moist.

Fair enough - for me, if someone is happy to have a typically binary gender expression / presentation, then it doesn’t make sense for them to identify as non-binary.

I think there needs to be something, otherwise the thing to advocate for is to have no labels at all

ok, that’s fair - change “gender assigned at birth” to “either traditional binary gender”

So, to be clear, you’re saying that someone who is happy to present as their gender assigned at birth, behave like their gender assigned at birth, who doesn’t feel dysphoria, and is socialised as their gender assigned at birth can be non-binary?

Why would I think that anyone owes me androgyny? I just think that if someone is shown as living a happy life in a specifically binary manner, they aren’t representative of enbies.

To my eyes, both characters appear to be drawn in an extremely feminine manner.

If anybody wants to both present themselves and behave in an entirely binary manner, but feels differently on the inside, then that’s entirely valid … I think most of us have at least struggled with that at some point, if not for most of our lives.

But that’s not something being shown or described in this comment. There are rafts of comics depicting binary people, so from that the comic seems at best to be lazy or perhaps thoughtless.

Yeah, it’s a nice idea but feels like enby erasure

This is fantastic, thank you <3