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minus-squareCevilia (they/she/…)@lemmy.blahaj.zonelinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up26·4 days agoMattress. That’s a gender-neutral dom, according to at least one enby I know. “Yes Mattress.” It also helps remind them not to take things too seriously. :)
minus-squareSharkWeek@lemmy.blahaj.zonelinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up8·4 days agoThat would just take me completely out of the moment :-/
minus-squareCevilia (they/she/…)@lemmy.blahaj.zonelinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up6·3 days agoI’ve also heard “mastress” and, as others have commented, “mixtress” Mattress is my fave but the joy is we don’t all have to agree on one single universal term :)
minus-squareSharkWeek@lemmy.blahaj.zonelinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up3·3 days agoOh, now that one I like - I might make use of it :-)
minus-squareOlgratin_Magmatoe@slrpnk.netlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up3·3 days agoWhat if their name is Matt. Would you address them as Mattress Matt?
minus-squareCevilia (they/she/…)@lemmy.blahaj.zonelinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up6·3 days agoI’d address them however they told me to address them like a good girl
Mattress. That’s a gender-neutral dom, according to at least one enby I know. “Yes Mattress.”
It also helps remind them not to take things too seriously. :)
That would just take me completely out of the moment :-/
I’ve also heard “mastress” and, as others have commented, “mixtress”
Mattress is my fave but the joy is we don’t all have to agree on one single universal term :)
Oh, now that one I like - I might make use of it :-)
What if their name is Matt. Would you address them as Mattress Matt?
I’d address them however they told me to address them like a good girl