• captainlezbian@lemmy.world
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    4 days ago

    Unfortunately for me, many people read extroversion and confidence as dominance, so i have to be quite clear how easy it is to bring me to my knees and that no I really don’t switch

    • SharkWeek@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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      3 days ago

      Ha! That’s a good point - I’m on the flip side, socially I’m quiet and introverted, and I’ve had to lay down the law a couple of times due to crossed wires

      • captainlezbian@lemmy.world
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        2 days ago

        Yeah my domme is like that. It’s funny because I’ve come to associate short, introverted, and quiet/awkward women in the community with dominance, but I know that isn’t the stereotype yet lol

    • Anarki_@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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      4 days ago

      Big time feels.

      Also apparently (in my experience) being a male means I’m automatically in charge all the time :(