• symbolstumble@lemmy.zip
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    19 hours ago

    Who is putting “so much focus” on that one area? Sabrina Carpenter, the photographer, the media for zooming in and making it something it didn’t need to be? Also, is what you see there in the photo an unacceptable amount of stubble to be seen under one’s arms? Would you prefer she didn’t raise her arms at all, or be sure to shave right before any photos might be taken? Sorry if this comes off as hostile, your comment just elicited so many questions for me.

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      17 hours ago

      Who is putting “so much focus” on that one area?

      It’s literally a sleeveless dress that accentuates that particular area.

      I literally have no problem with whether she shaves or chooses not to shave, or stubble, or whatever. As I stated before, I am completely capable of being attracted to women who don’t shave their armpits.

      And like I said, I think that if a man goes sleeveless and his armpit hair is visible, that also looks pretty bad.

      My recommendation was just “In that situation, maybe get a different dress, one that doesn’t accentuate your armpits.”

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      18 hours ago

      No he telling you if you are trying to make an impression of beauty then you should do basic procedures to look so. For example you particularly wont go to meeting with your boss in not ironed suit