• MinnesotaGoddam@lemmy.world
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    6 hours ago

    I mean, my wife usually has more armpit hair than I do. I gotta shave mine off or the stink germs breed there. She’s lucky she smells like unicorn farts and moon dust.

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    19 hours ago

    I don’t understand. Is it because there’s a tiny bit of stubble in what is possibly the hardest place on the body to shave? As a man that’s been waxed before, I 100% understand if someone doesn’t want to do it. It sucks. And this is like the amount of hair I have by evening if I shave in the morning.

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        6 hours ago

        (my dudes, some of us here respect each others intelligence enough not to use sarcasm tags. Which of course leaves dipshits like me confused as fuck, which I think is hilarious in an ironing kind of way. And these racing stripes I put on the community look pretty sharp)

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            7 hours ago

            I would imagine that some are harder to shave than others, depending on their shape.

            But man, shaving a scrotum is a good way to accidentally castrate yourself.

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              6 hours ago

              I can’t imagine how folk shave their buttholes and peributtholes on their own. Like even with slippers I end up snicking something, and no one needs to see my war zone I’m not making a beautician do it. And I’m not trying waxing I tried a small bit on my leg. Big mistake. That goes nowhere near my puckers.

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    7 hours ago

    I actually don’t care at all if women have armpit hair, but I don’t want to see them that particular way, if it makes sense.

    But for exactly the same reason I don’t want to see a man’s armpit hair.

    It’s not a sexist thing. I fully support women’s ability to have armpit hair, but if you’re going to have it, maybe the dress where that’s all hanging out isn’t the right one to choose. It’s literally the same as if some hairy bro wore a wife beater and had his big hairy pits out.

    And I will state very clearly that I can be completely attracted to a woman who doesn’t shave her armpits. In fact, that’s not a fetish of mine or anything, but there have been some very specific cases where me knowning that a woman didn’t shave was something that I found really weirdly attractive.

    But still, wearing a top which exposes a lot of skin, same thing as if a guy did it. Kind of gross to put so much focus on that one area.

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      6 hours ago

      Who is putting “so much focus” on that one area? Sabrina Carpenter, the photographer, the media for zooming in and making it something it didn’t need to be? Also, is what you see there in the photo an unacceptable amount of stubble to be seen under one’s arms? Would you prefer she didn’t raise her arms at all, or be sure to shave right before any photos might be taken? Sorry if this comes off as hostile, your comment just elicited so many questions for me.

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        4 hours ago

        Who is putting “so much focus” on that one area?

        It’s literally a sleeveless dress that accentuates that particular area.

        I literally have no problem with whether she shaves or chooses not to shave, or stubble, or whatever. As I stated before, I am completely capable of being attracted to women who don’t shave their armpits.

        And like I said, I think that if a man goes sleeveless and his armpit hair is visible, that also looks pretty bad.

        My recommendation was just “In that situation, maybe get a different dress, one that doesn’t accentuate your armpits.”

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        6 hours ago

        No he telling you if you are trying to make an impression of beauty then you should do basic procedures to look so. For example you particularly wont go to meeting with your boss in not ironed suit

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    23 hours ago

    Thats literally nothing. Wake me up when ladies full armpit Bushes are back in style

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    24 hours ago

    Who the fuck is this? What the fuck is that and finally who the fuck cares?

    Live your own motherfucking lives, ya twats.

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      20 hours ago

      Thanks for showing you care by taking the time to comment. And for creating a paradox, because now if the reader is to live their “own motherfucking lives, ya twats”, they will be following your directive, and caring for what you think, and thusly not living their “own motherfucking lives, ya twats” Their only option otherwise is to not live their “own motherfucking lives, ya twats” as their individual expression, yet that too would be not living their “own motherfucking lives, ya twats”. Perhaps they will need to return for more advice on living their “own motherfucking lives, ya twats”.

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        7 hours ago

        It’s like when Tom Morello asks the audience to sing along and they’re all like “Fuck you I won’t do what you tell me” and he’s like “Wtf this is Renegades of Funk”.